Getting a girl of your dreams is much like getting a car of your dream. But unlike a car which you can always bargain for, there is nothing like a 50 percent discount in courting the girl of your dreams, she is so sweet a thing to be discounted, you dearly are in love with her & your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl really depends on how big your heart is – faint heart, never won fair lady.
The first dating idea for any man is to build a good impression. In your doing so, you do not have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl’s attention.
- Be unique, that is all you need.
- Be a man of his individual style.
- Dress decently – indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language – obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured & cheap;
- Be a man of good habits, do not drink or smoke like any other loser.
How to make a girl fall in love with you? Take your time. Add some romance to your dating style. When in College I had a crush on the most beautiful lady in our first year lot. Though all senior guys were out to get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from the other guys.
I wrote her 3 letters without disclosing my identity & slide into her room secretly. All I said was ‘Yours Secret Admirer’ The first letter contained the meaning of her name, this I got by playing around with the initials of her name to make meaning.
The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards & it was all about her physique & her stylishness. In the third letter I told the girl to be ready to receive a rose flower from her admirer, but only if she could be kind enough to phone him using a number that I had included in the letter. The girl called me that very night, and her first words to me were, “Hello Secret Admirer”. Later on she told me that was so creative of me, no one had approached her in that manner. I made her fall in love with me & made a date in the romantic manner.
Befriending and understanding the girl you are out to get is the next important thing. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to be adored & needs to be needed.
This will move you closer to the girl and you will get to know what she is into, what she likes & dislikes, and what her style. Love is built upon friendship & it always leaves individuals better off having known each other should they break up. Be sure that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will make her create room for you in her heart.
A shoulder to lean on and good friend that she can always turn to is all that a girl wants. Please do not hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her passion of hardworking and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope. This above all other things will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character.
In you, she will found that friend whom she can open up to, share with and opinion each other on the rights and wrongs, the dos and do not’s of life. Do not forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.
Make the lady feel special, because she is someone’s friend – your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your life in a special way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company & for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you & for making you smile.
In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world, and every aspect of your life with your girl. For all time dream with her, build with her, & always cheer her on and support her. Let know your girl how you always think about her even when you try not to think about her. Tell the girl that she is your first thing in the morning and the last thing when you go to bed at night. Her knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped beneath the softness of your blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her go ‘my my’ and her heart will sing your name all the year round.
You have to be creative and positive to keep girl’s interest in you so full of life. Never fail to call her, even when she least expects it. No matter how many dates you take her, do not make any elbow – exceeding moves after any date, just drop her home & with a friendly handshake, wish her good night. Do not kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned on how patient you are with her when it comes to such matters as kissing her & accessing her inner graces. The writing is on the wall that you want her, but you cannot have her just yet. Increase your demand, Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times.
Make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very much cold, she is actually missing vitamin you. By this time, she will be so much into you and since love is truthful & love is characterized by open and honest communication, sincerely promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, and your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you will always be there for her, to listen and to hold her hand, and that you will always do your best to make her happy, and feel loved.
Keep in mind patience is the key to her heart, be like that gardener watching a fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it, but, exercising tremendous self-discipline, neither feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, nor testing it to see if it is ready.
And then, one day he holds out his hand and the fruit simply drops into it, ripe, warm and eager to be eaten. The patience and self-control which you practice will make you more attractive and charming. This will qualify you as her daily vitamin and win you that heart hers.
I wish you to meet the girl of your dreams as early as possible, make her fall in love with you, and make her feel the happiest girl in the world!